but too bad stay in?
your relationship problems...
help you find a way to stay together.
relationship. You have grown weary of replaying the same dramas
over and over. The anger and hurt have made you drift apart,
longing for the days when love seemed easy.
Sometimes you think things are improving and you find yourself
enjoying your partner...
Buttons get pushed; lines get drawn. Afterwards, reaching out for
your partner seems risky.
and blaming. Feeling alone, unloved, and rejected, you wonder if
you are right for each other. You likely still love each other, but your
hurt and confusion is increasing every day. It is stifling your love
for each other.
No Matter How Lost and Apart You Feel Now,
You Can Find the Love that You Know is There.
relationship stress and struggles into a solid, loving relationship.
ways to work out your differences. Rather than getting lost in a
storm of words and reactions, you can build a safe harbor in
couples therapy I do can help you feel understood and loved
more for who you are. You learn to be more real with each other,
so you can get more real love. You both become stronger and so
does your partnership.
of one another. You get back the peace, passion, and fun!
rich place for love and happiness to grow.
Cause of Your Relationship
Once and For All
underneath your drama.
than just help you sort out your problems in a more sane way.
I also help you uncover the deeper desires that are hidden beneath
your problems. As you both find more of what you truly want,
your love can deepen and flow. You can relax.
ease. You have more room for understanding and love, as you
find ways to become closer through your differences instead of
arguing over them.
caring, usually taking just 12 - 20 sessions. The approach I use,
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, has been proven by current
research to be the most effective form of couples counseling
available -- with results that can easily last a lifetime.
Don't lose hope. You can change the way you love
and get the love you want.
Give me a call today to set up an appointment or free
consult. I'd be happy to answer your questions
or help you in any way I can.
| discover what drives your dramas and stop them|
| listen to one another, and feel heard|
| find the lost love that lies beneath your conficts|
| replace tension with harmony|
| trade distance with closeness|
| take space apart with love and ease|
| heal old hurts, including past affairs|
| renew trust and commitment|
| learn to be deeper in love|
| have the most satisfying sex you have ever had|
|be happily married (or committed) much more often!|
|Joseph Gottfried, MA
TWO OFFICES located
in the North Chicago
4256 N Ravenswood Ave.
Chicago, IL 60613
3705 W Montrose Ave.
Chicago, IL 60618